It can be confusing out there:

You really DO want 'her' but top experts are saying
NOT to want her. 'Don't be boring, act confident, don't
do this, try this instead, chase w/o chasing, form an emotional connection,
push her hot buttons, these are your mistakes, don't
forget to do this, don't chase, attract!, fix yourself, be the life
of the party, don't try to get laid, just have fun'
yet it puts all this maddening pressure and confusion
on you and you get stuck even more.

Let's cut through everything you've learned about this topic so far and look at things as simply as they can possibly be.  A man and a woman meeting; you and her.  To get to the fantasy, a relationship itself has to form, right?  Well..

With her attraction or interest in you from the start, things can work and the relationship can likely progress (and without rejection). 

Without her attraction (within 3 minutes) things are unlikely to EVER develop other than 'just friends' and it forces you to WORK at TRYING to get her attraction when she already lost interest and will go for another guy who CAN clearly push her buttons with natural attraction.

In a way, EVERYTHING comes down to HER attraction for you!

Not your attraction for her..And this is at the very START of meeting her.

Unless you LIKE being in the friendzone and not seen as a lover, ATTRACTION IS EVERYTHING.

Everything WORKS when a woman is interested and attracted enough (unless you're just not doing your part to facilitate things)..Now let's talk more..

Can you think of a time when a woman was 51% interested in you more than you were in her?  She wanted to see you more, call you more or develop things but you weren't as interested?  Maybe she wasn't as pretty as you wanted though, yet that's when things actually work..you could have had her. 

It worked because she had attraction; it was natural and you had the power or 'favor' in the relationship.  And today the women you want just seem to 'have' that favor so it makes things more challenging.  Women have to be attracted to you.  So...

Sexual Attraction & Communication..

You can also call it 'chemistry', 'tension', or 'sparks' and it's based in your energy and physiological relationship with her.  It's not really based in your interpersonal or social relationship with her (although this is the world we 'see'). 

You may meet her social ideal by your outer appearance (or not) and you may have personality traits she thinks she is looking for in a long term relationship but this does not equate to ATTRACTION.

When women feel attraction around you, 'game' can become invisible 'non-game' as they help you by falling into their natural instinctive role on the sexual level and you both can escalate in the mating dance of seduction. 

Women aren't being 'duped' and they're actually getting what they want; a REAL relationship can develop that can lead to getting physical and sharing each other in many ways because of the way she 'feels' around you no matter how beautiful she is. 

In fact, when you reach a certain level you will both know 'it's on' within 3 seconds and then just spend some time together with basic normal pleasantries before you can both get what you want - on that physical level.

So when there IS sexual attraction, there is a very good chance that an intimate relationship can develop and as women say, 'things just happened.'  Yet, (and maybe you've noticed) that no matter how great your confidence, inner game or social life is

HARDLY ANYTHING works when she isn't attracted!

And if things aren't working, she's probably not attracted enough

So how on earth do you 'get' her attracted to you? 

Without her interest upfront, you're left to TRY and trigger her attraction response through UN-natural means.  Kind of sounds like the seduction industry (where you're more attracted to 'sexy' women than they are to you or to other men), doesn't it?

One path is that you become stuck in a losing battle where you try to improve EVERYTHING ELSE about you but that which matters to her the most; the natural chemistry just from being around you. 

There really isn't training out there for that is there?  Being a 'natural' was enviable and primarily ambiguous as to 'how' to become one until now.

You can't really 'make her' feel for you because that's not natural and you're supposed to just 'do it' automatically or she'll prefer the man who CAN who doesn't have 'game', is real and whose body language is telling her (body) what she wants to know. 

You can't 'talk her into it' or brag to her (and it's not really about your looks or social status anyway).  Like David DeAngelo says, 'Attraction isn't a choice'.

You just have to literally SHOW UP WITH (and have at all times) this masculine natural value that connects with her sexuality.  And if you don't have much of it to begin with and even worse are turned to mush around hot women - yikes.

So to reiterate,

Without attraction or this evident natural value upon arrival, you're left to literally try and develop 'game' or all kinds of conscious ways to manipulate her into feeling attracted to you with memorized 'cues' or compliance generators to get her in a certain state or other creepy kinda things (even IF you can get outside of your own head enough to approach her and remember what order they go in for your own agenda). 

Because the men who go this route are not getting real attraction or communicating on the raw sexual level; sneaky manipulation may SEEM to be the only thing to do (to somehow try and indirectly fool, coerce or affect her state of mind into it).  But then they get rejected or strangle dealing with a woman's logic and social judgments.

In fact my new definition of 'GAME' is: developing an acquired unnatural 'skillset' through massive repetition of trying to trigger already uninterested women into feeling attraction for you. 

Now, take, rinse and repeat the process of either consistently triggering attraction with every woman you meet without 'game' vs. continually approaching and NOT triggering attraction. 

You either have a dream lifestyle and choice with women where new relationships can develop VERY fast at anytime (trust me on this) OR resigned to this frustrating approach-a-holic 'game' and resentment chasing the one thing you can't get enough of. 

Or maybe worse, you've almost stopped trying altogether because you don't want to risk rejection and it rarely works anyways.  It's not that you're a wuss..just none of it seems right including the LACK of attraction from women towards you..you just don't know how to communicate this power or get her attraction sparked.

All of this is based on the 'chemistry' or attraction present when first meeting women and HER gut-level intuition of you far more than anything you said.  If there's NOT 'just something about' you, some have little choice but to follow the path of inconsistent 'game' and thinking it's all a 'skill' to be learned or to waste years with inconsistent success being a guy who 'could be doing a bit better' while women are still around him not ever knowing how to 'fully connect'.

Through years of NOT getting flirting IOI's, it causes you to think that it must be you or your inner game that is at fault (because you believe your subjective view of reality and it's reinforced around you all of the time).  'HOW can things possibly be different or vastly changed all of a sudden?'

Ok, so you want more attraction from women yet it's difficult to know what to do around them or what to say because they hardly show you any signs of interest even when you ARE a great guy.  You talk to them and they're still not really INTERESTED so you fumble about how to take it to the next level.

This concern is real because it's like this everywhere it seems and you wonder if you're really the problem. 

I used to deal with the issues of not getting response from many women too..back then I was RARELY approaching (in college) because something didn't feel right..they just weren't showing me any signs and my strong ego didn't want to risk rejection (yet I was fine when I was IN relationships or involved socially in groups - and still dated quite a bit). 

Through many of those years I turned down probably 1,000's of opportunities by not doing anything and thinking no one could feel more frustrated, almost resentful towards women.  Fortunately I found another path separate from the PUA/seduction path that I think is the hope for real men who ARE good quality catches and KNOW it but are having problems getting women interested.

Maybe it's hard to think how any good-looking woman could EVER like or fall for you.  You may think maybe you don't have the right technique yet or you're not naughty and funny enough because it seems to have a triggered effect on women when 'done right'.

From one angle, it's like you MUST be the problem to be fixed (and the world is one f*cked up place with little real hope).  At least you have your fantasy world but it's not the real world.  You want the best of both.

Now, this may be radical and you may not understand it yet but I teach that Inner Game is not enough.  These are natural issues greater than your inner game or subjectivity so we have to work on it as such and take your inner game out of the equation for a while because it's corrupting and suppressing your natural power.

Sexual communication itself is separate from your own subjective logic AND the logic of your future women.  Being sexual with women from dozens of countries has taught me this.  It's just great to be able to also break it down objectively as well.

The common denominators are nature, energy and sexual attraction despite any kind of level of social conditioning.  These are powerful forces that cut through ALL social culture and when you know how to finally harness them you can CONNECT where most men can't, to reach her on that sexual level. 

Obviously you know this page is about my new product, 'Sexual Attraction Mastery' and what it can do for you.

The S.A.M. program is about HOW TO become this magnetic force of a man who CAN create attraction just by his presence, energy and nonverbal behavior without trying, thinking, modeling, or acting (something that has yet to be taught I think - and without becoming a Buddhist monk, Marine or UFC fighter). 

So, in all of your continued meetings with women;

No attraction response from women = years of hard work or frustration trying to GET them attracted to you, wrangling with her bitch shield, missing out on real catches while learning 'skills' to manipulate or somehow trigger a response because they weren't naturally attracted to you.  Or just a lot of confusion and sitting by on the sidelines. 

At best, you're looking at inconsistent success after a lot of effort until you spend years working at it unnaturally to finally build up enough real experience with women to 'turn' into a natural.  At least you'll learn a lot along the way - (far more than 'original' naturals had to be aware of) and it's kind of like we HAD to now learn this stuff being mainstream, good catches even. 

There are millions of good men who WON'T study this for many reasons and are now living lives of quiet desperation; we're doing something about it and I commend you for seeking answers.

Pretty harsh?  Sounds like reality though, doesn't it? 

I'll show you another path.  I took a different path; a natural path to becoming a natural alpha that leveraged the way instead of a more ignorant 'action only' path.

Can you see how easy it is to get 'stuck up' in methods, routines, positive self-talk, bootcamps, forums, 'acting' confident, peacocking, neg/dhv, push-pull, modeling alpha male behavior, self-consciousness, approaching countless women, etc.? 

It all comes from LACK of attraction or flirting response from women when you meet them.  And it's not necessarily YOUR fault for it either; it's the dynamics going on both sides with men AND women that are having a greater effect than you realize.

It all seems so damn difficult and if the mPUA's took years to get there, look what path you're in for.  This is 'the game' and it's based on your values, beliefs, communication and behavior at the root - which we're going to change (if you're ready) so that you can instead AUTOMATICALLY trigger sexual attraction on powerful natural levels with all women you meet.  Then the other junk takes little to no level of prevalence.

Look at everything that exists out there in the industry (including other mPUA sales pages) and ask yourself.."Would ANY of these 'actions' be necessary if I was just EQUAL to her and making a connection with another person (instead of objectifying her body)?" 

"Would I have to know or learn ANY tricks, confidence boosters, lines, or have to use crutches to connect with women if I accepted that I too had power?" 

If you're nervous, have anxiety or difficulty communicating with women in any way, more superficial solutions are not the answer..experience alone through this level of communication with her as the eternal (stimulus) prize is a long and arduous path. 

Realizing this will save you a LOT of headache and sweat because women expect a man who can show up as their equal (or greater) in value/status and remain congruent throughout communication instead of being a wavering, quivering little boy around her (how can she get physical or trust that in the bedroom?).

It's time to work on the core issues and EFFECTIVELY with leveraged power tools and awareness to work on your power, energy and sexual communication.

Why not just BE that man

who can trigger attraction automatically at all times instead of playing games?  Wouldn't that just make life easier and more worthwhile? 

It's what women are WAITING for: a congruent man of power, confidence and strength who instantly causes a chemical reaction and starts flipping her beautiful hair to show she's interested in YOU - before you ever spoke or approach and without her own awareness.

This takes all of the pressure off of everything else which PUA's (are forced to) think IS everything.

You would communicate differently and because of getting IOI's, flirting and attraction, your experiences, dates and stories would grow even faster.  And think about this one:

WITH SEXUAL ATTRACTION from women and a little bit of experience, ALL of your questions about dating could be answered.  You would just be getting results and fixing the little things along the way (that you worried about) because they want to make it work and girls will forgive you for things (vs. testing you harshly, ridiculing and flaking).

Then you can keep improving yourself and focusing on what you want to in life while experiencing the joys with women and you in reality.  You can have reality AND fantasy with more and more beautiful women.

Here's another angle on this because it's so important;

If right now in your reality you just HAD the attraction and interest of women you met, you wouldn't have to know ANY pick-up lines, routines, memorized openers, stacked triggers, NLP or sneaky tactics AT ALL. 

Because all that matters is her attraction and real chemistry (which is separate from good looks, social status, fancy cars, verbal communication or personal habits).  Maybe you just don't know what that's like.

If you just don't have that reality right now, why not just place yourself in that reality?  I talk about it in the program as one of the things you can effectively do and where to go. 

Can you even imagine life without any 'game'?

Without worrying or thinking EVER about what to say to a woman (and even if you did think of something unique it would only create MORE attraction)?  Can you imagine not ever doing anything to 'screw things up'?

Can you imagine just meeting women and things actually WORKING?  Smooth to get their number, no flaking and follow-ups because they WANT to be with you.  No chasing.  Smooth escalation to kissing and making out, etc. with the women you've always WANTED.  You could focus on them, listen more and ENJOY the conversation/connection.

Is it even possible to put aside ALL concept of 'game' and actually succeed with women far more with less work than your 'competition'?  Yes.  It's a different reality and I'll teach you how to communicate and live in it but it's going to take some believable leverage in order to make it happen.

You see, we're SO USED to social and interpersonal (language, verbal) communication in our Western daily lives that we just aren't aware enough of the natural and energy dynamics of communication in our 1st World.  It's FOREIGN to us.

There IS a different reality called being a natural - and real man.  Natural men see the world differently and have different types of relationships.

We're all born being a natural because it's where we arrive from: a biological process.  It's just been conditioned into repression over the years despite what some other dating experts say that it's a 'skill' and only some men were 'born with it'. 

There are no lessons for lemmings, classes for clams, or bootcamps for buffalo.  There's no pick-up for possums or inner game for iguanas (ok, ok).  Animals know what to do.  The good news is that you can cultivate and build your natural power while breaking down the walls of social conditioning and mental blocs to free your untamed wild-e-beast.

You already have the potential and if you were stuck on a desert island with Milla Jovovich I think you'd 'find a way' (even without any other knowledge of the concept) because mating is a biological, reproductive process. 

Women are not your enemy, they are your polar balance on deeper levels (beneath social adaptation) and it's time to cultivate that sexual energy, then they can be irresistibly drawn to you instead of judging you on your social value.

Breakthroughs to consistent real success are just whether you cultivate that nature back out of you (fill the empty lake back up) or fall into the social subjective view of reality (nonsexual) that you believe is real in front of you. 

Until what I'm teaching becomes more 'popular' and socially accepted, most mainstream men aren't ready to take that leap because it's so different than what we've been conditioned into (the social and interpersonal world of consumer comfort around us despite it being the main thing holding us back). 

Heck, it's the outcasts who have the MOST power because they've RETAINED their nature; bad boys, jerks, renegades, adventurers..

But it's a lot trickier than just thinking positive, self-affirmations or talking about changing your beliefs; your beliefs have to align with nature solidly which is one of the things I can teach that is necessary for consistency and power. 

And this natural realignment has to be done at POWERFUL levels to recondition and undo the damage that has been done in order for you to powerfully attract women so they can't resist you.  You have to use a lot of leverage to make a REAL change in your physiology and logic alone doesn't have the power to do it.

If you're not ready for it, you may not be ready for real power and sexual attraction with women.  When you've had ENOUGH of techniques and 'game', then come back and see me.  PUA's may ridicule my message because it seems an abomination of their reality...until through time it (nature) may become more accepted

So look down to the core of things - trigger REAL attraction response from your BEHAVIOR (which should happen within 3 seconds of her even just SEEING you) within a woman of any social status level and you can literally forget about everything you knew about seduction or pick-up because you'll be getting consistent results as long as you can communicate on that level (yes social dynamics can influence her initial perception but this isn't about strippers or nightclub b.s.; you have to have natural power anyways). 

No techniques, lines, c&f, etc. - just you being yourself but with sexual attraction and her interest to take things further because you had the priority and action plan to get yourself back in relationship with alpha nature. 

I know you can become a natural when you work on your natural game instead of keeping everything within your inner game or the 6% of social communication.

OK, you're not going to start out at an 'ALPHA' levels here but if you just keep doing what you're doing and apply S.A.M. you're actually going to start seeing flirting, phone numbers, attraction, responses and RESULTS doing the SAME things when you just couldn't before because you have THE MISSING PIECE OF THE EQUATION: SEXUAL ATTRACTION. 

You know that 'feeling' you get like a surge of lust starting from your loins

(after a week of no touching..)? :

It's an energy or physiological (mind/body) response in relationship to a thought or other stimulus/trigger.  That is a powerful motivator for action and continually attracts YOU to hot women.  At times, you may want to bang EVERY 8 or above in your city.  This is a FEELING..feelings are powerful in directing or influencing your behavior.

Seriously think about how strong this FEELING is for you, it's like once you get started and pass a certain point, it's near impossible to uh..'stop'.  This is the power of nature and energy; your sexuality. 

And yes, there IS a point where women are literally paralyzed and have no choice but to take you in because the force of nature is so strong and VERY real; ESPECIALLY if you're an alpha male/strong energy (and have built the trust and value to that point already).

Yet in today's age, this sexual energy feeling has been continually triggered and exploited out of you by social programming whether you know it or not merely by being in relation to it (think strippers, mtv, porn stars, men's magazines). 

If the steak is sizzling in front of you, it's more likely you want that steak and you'll begin to VALUE that steak because it's giving you such great emotional associations and euphoria.  If you live in the chef's kitchen you're more aware and devoted to food.  If you're a tattoo artist you're probably getting tattoos.

It's what you're emotional about the most that you have to be careful of; do YOU have the power and control or is someone secretly manipulating your behavior to their agenda?

But it's not just you that has these strong natural feelings.  Women go through a slightly different but similar 'energy' response around the relational 'stimulus' of a man of strong natural character.  And this is what matters because they are the ones to let you in.  This attraction is what STARTS the path to her letting you in (representing the balance and propagation of life).

For the reality (unless you're around cash-looking strippers), all that matters is HER response to you and the stronger your energy is, the stronger she's going to open up and feel that SURGE of feeling (like you get) that will compel her to open up to you, even desire to have you very soon after where she HAS to have you.

To do so, we have to do a lot of groundwork reframing on what you define as sexuality so that you can control your energy around 'hot' women and have it strong enough to turn them onto you instead of being turned off or unaffected by you - because the path to success is not about sex upfront with women.  It's about comfort, trust and attraction (which can be called sexual rapport).

Sex is a byproduct of a pre-existing relationship and when you can trigger attraction with each new woman you meet, the path to the reality can develop.

We're going to change your core understanding of reality from a social one to a far more natural one and this will affect everything about what you attract and how you communicate with hot women.  You can reach them on those sexual levels while other men play games and don't get it.

You're already meeting women, it's time to get results by naturally triggering her sexual attraction by using LESS GAME and 0 self-consciousness.  This is the level others want to attain after YEARS of hard work and I'm taking you straight to the CORE of it with 'S.A.M.' to work from your State of mind, beliefs, values and energy that flows outward from you to strongly attract women TO you nonverbally.

Your experience will add up faster too when women want to keep being with you instead of rejecting or dismissing you.  What was missing was that sexual attraction and energy response that compels her to start flirting with you (not necessarily any more 'work'). 

Will you focus on building your natural power and polarity with women?

This is where it's at and a few weeks from now when you're seeing results that you couldn't get consistently before and women keep being interested in you while you're not seemingly doing 'anything', you'll be glad you chose to work on your nature.  You'll start making up for lost years.

You'll also start to realize that you're not even harnessing a fraction of your natural potential and you'll see how far away you were before and see how far you COULD go.  You will start to believe it's ALL possible. 

Your natural and energy realignments and belief conditioning will center you and start magically attracting responses from women because you value and attract something different about them - instead of just ignorantly going out their blind trying conscious techniques through repetition on nonsexual levels.  Then...

Success with women is just about making connections and when you have this 'sexual value' confidence that triggers attraction and shifts HER energy and her heart skips a beat, her cheeks flush, pupils dilate and she starts flirting (and you KNOW it's on) - things happen and can develop very fast without reliance on techniques or manipulation no matter how beautiful she is.  And this natural/sexual communication makes all the difference.  You don't know until you know.

You're the REAL THING and she can't let her logic or judgments stop her (no matter your other personal or social weaknesses) because she is feeling a biological urge pushing her towards you and you have the self-patient energy balance not to jump her bones (just yet) or to screw it up! 

You can't put a price on it and a world of women opens up to you because of your aware and growing connection with nature and sexual energy.

Then, you can catch up on years of not being where you wanted to be (I've made up for decades myself ehhe) and you can share in the magic and beauty of women in many ways (including physical), loving them even more.

In fact, applying S.A.M. you would only have to know a few basic things from there and I can tell you them right now (so we can get them out of the way and focus more on what really matters). 

Imagine approaching a '9.5' looking woman

She's gorgeous, fashionable, vibrant and desired by men (most who are now too scared to talk with her).  She's the type you'd want to be in a relationship with.  Got that picture in your (skyward) head?

Your confidence may not be perfect because you're still working on it but when you just casually connect and say "hey, what's up? nice day today isn't it?" that she ACTUALLY responds and doesn't reject you.  Your not as thrown off anymore because you're equalizing the balance of relational energy power through your reconditioning with S.A.M.

Not only that but because you don't have an agenda AT ALL and you're just connecting with another human being she's open and carries on a simple conversation with you.  Even though you're not the best-looking guy, she's actually relieved to find that a guy is finally being REAL and normal around her because she's seen it all.

She's so impressed by your being real and not trying to get in her tight jeans (stay with me here) that any reservations she's had starts to turn to more smiling, laughing at what you say and even more nonverbal indicators of interest.

In your communication with her, you look for more of those healthy signs of interest as subtle as they may be and if it's going well enough you just throw something out there like 'hey, we should hang out sometime and continue this conversation (you can take me shopping and buy me things, etc. or something you've found you have in common)'. 

Or, "I gotta get going but let's continue this conversation sometime..." (which will be in person because you use the phone to book the meeting - and to get a little more comfort and value across fast before the meeting).

With a generally positive response on throwing something out there like that (generally around 3+ minutes of talking) you can then say, "great, well let me get your information and we'll take it from here." 

If you're still getting better at this, pull out your cel phone and say, "you got email?...you know what, actually just give me your number, it's easier to enter (in the phone)."  Enter it or have her enter it and press send so it stores it, you can add her name later.  It's important to lead and be direct yet nonchalant about this like it's no big deal.  And you'll call her by name too.

This way (who doesn't have email?) it kind of 'upgrades' to the phone number if you feel it was a short conversation or if her interest wasn't ironclad but still positive/open to things (with proper phone 'use' you can book the follow-up without flake later).  I usually just get their number by starting out with stating/guessing their area code out loud (ie. "713 right?") and entering the first 3 numbers.

End it first and go.  I've done all kinds of basic variations on this but you're really just CASUALLY making a connection with another human being without agenda, having a simple conversation and if things work out with her showing further signs of attraction (and esp. if you know you're not going likely to run into her again), you can bridge the gap by getting her info to follow up on something you both have in common. 

It's not a big deal and remember, no co-dependencies and the cape-ability is more important than any one girl (I don't give them that power unless they're my fiance). 

Paul Janka is an approach machine and he's really good at this because he's become smooth and natural.  I like a lot of his outlook more than some others..he's probably even better than me at day game if only because he's so proactive and has run far more numbers. 

What makes it work which most may overlook is that he has reached equality and fearlessness with the beautiful women and Prada's he's connecting with; granted he took the long road to it. 

From experience he's also gained more of this natural value and sexual confidence - that's what you should focus on, not the 'numbers' of approaches you may have to do or the apparent 'skillset'.  1 beautiful woman connection can be worth everything to you when you get your natural/non-game taken care of more.

So don't get things confused or too stuck up in 'game' as 'reality' because what's really going on is you are just connecting with another person (woman) in any environment and with power, polarity and attraction on the unseen levels, she has a reason to give you her number if she's single. 

That's what it boils down to.  And some will, some won't esp. within only 2 minutes - no dependencies.

You can either start from a 'game/skill' approach of 'having to' run a huge numbers game to get to a point of melting the fear away or work on balancing the power out with ie. S.A.M. so you don't have to run AS MANY numbers of approaches just to start seeing the results you want faster.  Different means to the same ends.

It doesn't take much to add some girls to your line-up when you've got the most important thing handled; relational equality and attraction for when you DO connect. 

This is about getting more results with less work (although doing a different kind of work) and so you don't have to do as much work and can enjoy a higher quality of life without making women your 'only' or primary focus because you just realistically may not have time for that. 

When a woman is interested and 'engaged' in a conversation with you, all of the pressure isn't on you to be in your head and you'll not really have to 'think' but it's important to know the simple bridge from above; it's intuitive just to take things further if there's a good connection.  If it's good; get her info to follow up later.

Consider 'Approaching' as

'Connecting' or 'Discovering'

What if you saw the world through the eyes of Elmo?  That would be a very different state frame and if it was real, would liberate your mind; the emotional power would overtake your inhibitions. 

There are only friends you haven't met yet.  To be more 'social' you could read 'How to Win Friends & Influence People'.  Go out to have fun, make casual connections and build your social network vs. babe-hunting, 'sarging' or an intention of 'picking up chicks'.

Connecting is really about trust and comfort immediately when you approach women and then they can start opening up - based on energy and nonverbal behavior alone (no co-dependency or her as the stimulus). 

WOMEN ARE JUST (LITERALLY) DYING to meet a man who is finally their equal who they can trust to open up to (in any setting).  And acting as a gay friend isn't it just to be closer to here, you have to have polarity because that's where the chemistry and tension is.  So..

Just practice being REAL without an agenda or anything related to pick-up that you learned.  When you connect with women, make it impossible for you to even get their number (if you know where she works you can always come back later and follow-up if she's still working there) for the next 10 connections.  Just find out something new and meet new people.

Practice not desiring anything other than a real connection or conversation and end it first and walk away.  You can meet women in malls, book stores, at work, events, parties, lounges, grocery shopping, classes, the gym, the beach, afterparties, bars, dancing class, yoga, airports, etc.  You can always use situational relevance of anything in the environment to open up with.

You can really get things hopping if you follow a lot of great social networking advice like from my friend Brent.  You can become the 'hub' or promoter and invite other people to join in.  Then you have social value done right. 

Or if you like models, have some kind of parallel value (he's my equal) that you can offer them (on top of the chemistry) when meeting (photographer, retoucher, designer, looking to hire, critique, etc.) or introduce them to people that do.  Expand your own interests and hobbies so that you have more in common with all of the people you connect.

Geography knowledge and languages are some of my favorites and have attracted and opened countless doors.

-- I hesitate to promote the word 'practice' but consider it as 'making' connections while you work on your natural character/energy with S.A.M. through the coming months.  And you will see that they start opening up and responding to you and showing up for dates, etc. because you're starting to generate a strong enough frequency of sexual energy that sparks a physiological response in them.

This is all that mattered, THEIR INTEREST/ATTRACTION and it's what PUA's are struggling for more than naturals (but now you understand where it comes from) and you just connect with them instantly so they want to be with you more instead of playing rejection games, etc.  Don't worry about your personality...it's really about the natural value you have which women will forgive some of your flaws because of how they feel around you.

What to say?  It hardly matters without an agenda (and all seduction 'game' seems to have an 'agenda' or 'prize').  Be of equal natural value and doors will open to win/win relationships with other people of power because of that unspoken trust bond.  It works with powerful men as well because you're being real.

In fact here are all the openers you'll ever have to use other than maybe some situational relevance OR some uniquely YOU openers (like "I can't stop eating sand, can you help me?" which are completely optional and not required).

"Hey."

"What's up?"

"Hi cutey."

"Where are you from (originally)?"
"Did you grow up here?"

"How do you guys know each other?"

"Having a good time?"

"Nice day isn't it?" (YES, even the weather)

"How you doing?"

"Hey, are you from (name a country)?"*

"Hey, are you (name an ethnicity)?"*

*Only recommended if you have some awareness and true interest here but I've opened the door countless times with these - everyone is from somewhere.  And then I'll often follow up with my geographical knowledge or speak a few words in her language.

This isn't about direct vs. indirect or anything.  This is about making new connections with other respectable people of power.  You can only make NEW relationships and if it's a no-win draw that's ok too.  Doing this there's no reason to get rejected at all.

Think of NORMAL conversations as the foundation.  Like Brent teaches; no outcome dependencies.  Just looking for further interest from her and if she would fit what you're looking for.

The PRIMARY value you have is sexual (nonverbal) so you don't have to put all your focus into the conversation, self-consciousness or worrying about your social status.  The magic chemistry will just be showing through and sub-communicating on the nonverbal level WHILE you're talking. 

What you talk about isn't that important; it's your energy in relationship to each other that is the magic and that you will develop with S.A.M.  It's what you are that speaks so loudly to her and you'll even be able to connect when you don't know her language.

The stronger your centered, masculine energy, the more powerful the force of attraction for her to secretly WANT to get YOU in bed because she can get even more of an unreal physiological synergy response (sexual) in relation to a stronger man (it's the polaric equivalent of you sleeping with the hottest, sexiest woman you can think of).  It's more 'alpha' and more undeniable euphoria.

Yes, further into your conversations you can get across inner 'value points' without bragging (Oh, hey I'm going to brazil, etc.) or doing spot-on celebrity impersonations (anything congruent with you that you do around your buddies)..but really it's really just normal conversation on the interpersonal level.

Now, yes you can be a little more flirty yourself but I wouldn't worry about it.  As long as you're congruent, great..sometimes I'll be more playful in my tone upfront but it's not necessary.

What matters is HER opening up and flirting with YOU.

In fact if there is any flirting going on, it's FAR more important to have it coming from her than from you and that she's touching you more.  Some women are more reserved and/so you can 'kino' as long as you're congruent, balanced and she's cool with it.  In fact in S.A.M. I teach you an escalation path of what I usually do that works consistently.

Ok but maybe you're thinking that's not possible; just to be normal around extremely sexy, hot or pretty women?! and that you would NEED to have to impress them or have advanced stacked routines memorized, etc.  It is possible and I lead by example.

And if you had problems not getting attraction response from women, the answer (I'm saying) is NOT MORE 'GAME', the super-secret sneaky hidden ninja mind trick, or a focus on 'trying' to trigger it. 

The answer is no game and instead forming new relationships of respect and synergistic power.  It's being grounded in who you are, being her true equal and it's working on your ability to unconsciously trigger nonverbal attraction in which our answers and path lie far beyond the weakness and limitations of logic, inner game, social trickery or status.

Nature is stronger than Nurture in the mating game.

So we talked a bit about some of the natural 'connection' things you can do which really are quite basic when you accept you are her equal.

To bring it back around to what matters; if you think you have to impress a woman in ANY way or do just about ANYTHING seduction related you have issues that have yet to be resolved still like fear and approach anxiety (and I am talking about mPUA's as well); the problem can be boiled down to a balance of power.

When a drooling, autograph seeking fan approaches an Angelina Jolie a true relationship has already formed no matter how the seeker justifies it in their head; it's kind of creepy and they can't be trusted to ever get close to the person of power.  There's no equality of power.

In fact, when you can balance out the power alone you will have unlimited choice with women

(S.A.M. can do that AND builds your sexual confidence)

And I DON'T mean trying to be a 'rockstar' peacocker to impress her and equal her socially.  Women 'get it' and you have to represent that you're not thrown off by them on a deeper level in your presence and behavior or they won't trust you to ever open up and let you in. 

They're just waiting for a man who accepts he is as powerful as she is who can be himself and not be dragging around her coattails or calling her every 30 minutes.

If you have butterflies around hot women, I'd say to focus and work on your energy, less on your inner game or social communication.  Look, I used to get those butterflies too and didn't think there was any real way to cure them and it just seemed all so blurry and confusing.

Now, I have absolved fear of women and communication because of what I am teaching you here and I now attract them like a magnet; I am their polar match and relationships develop sexually very fast and consistently.  One on one I have a very strong affect on women, this strength pulls them towards me.  I have developed this true behavior through what I'm presenting in this program.

You can too beyond your personality, looks, social status, nationality or inner game psychology that is holding you back from the power of nature you have yet to harness.

Balance out your physiological relationship so that you really ARE her equal AND polar opposite so that she opens up AND slips into the attraction response mode within seconds.  I keep bringing it up but it's still so new in the industry.

The stronger the magnetic energy or 'aura' of the magnet, the stronger the force of attraction to pull in.  It's time to work on building your masculine alpha energy and I know how to do it like nothing else - to get you back inline with the power of nature you never knew you had - within the S.A.M. program I'll teach you how.

Look at this guy.. he embodies masculine authority.  This is a clear alpha male who is a strong example of perfect body language and confidence.  His energy is so solid that I could tell he wasn't acting the energy part - he was behaviorally strong and present.

It's the late Lee Van Cleef in 'The Good, The Bad & The Ugly'.  When he enters that house in the movie and doesn't speak for a while - WATCH that scene towards the beginning..I'm still working on getting to THAT level of presence.

This represents a point where male body language and energy alone speaks EVERYTHING that a woman really has to know in order to start a potential (physical) relationship with you (and today there are unlimited opportunities for more casual relationships than previously).  She knows you are a survivor and will produce healthy offspring.

Or how about Marlon Brando? 

Who I am recently beginning to really discover and appreciate.

I would say to look more at his energy and presence than to emulate the more personality based actions he does in 'A Streetcar Named Desire' but Dave D. was right on - Alpha Male.

What we're looking at is masculine presence that is so solid, unwavering in relation to the hottest women in the world and that which women can 'trust' to submit to (the natural authority of the sexual polarity) with the development of a relationship. 

Again, it's your energy that you want to work on the most if you want the most power and effect with women vs. the surface level 'weaker' things.  I'd say 'Charm' or 'Charisma' is a mixing of strong energy with your unique personality.

Of course you're probably not very aware of it but WOMEN ARE, their intuition and senses tell them so (reaching the reptilian & limbic cortex in the brain) because like in the Animal Kingdom, it's a biological, primal, powerful process that in the balance..'life will find a way' to reproduce.  Life will continue and it's generally more natural cultures and social groups that reproduce the most.

Most species of animals communicate nonverbally and instinctually most of the time.  People who read sign language become very aware of nonverbal behavior because they have to be.  We're just not used to it again but I've discovered very clear ways so that you will SEE it.

Being with an 'alpha' male is a sure way of offspring surviving in the future and when you have that EFFECT on the women you're approaching or meeting before you even speak, you will see a whole new world because you'll melt right through the things that used to reject you or hold her back.

They will respond differently to different men because the MAN is the stimulus in the mating dynamic and she is the response.  Each man has different value to offer her that she can judge and size up pretty fast.

If you're the response to her as the stimulus (or sex prize) it's a losing game and that's how the social matrix is set up through years of behavioral conditioning.  It's time to break free from that oppression don't you think?

Remember, if you really WERE her equal you could be normal and actually communicate as equals with the trust there to develop into something more.  We have to look at the ROOTS and causes of these beliefs and behaviors to accurately get control of them and create new causes and beliefs to affect your future behavior so that you are powerful, humble and respected.

This is how powerful people communicate; a usually unseen level of nonverbal rapport, equality and respect they have for each other called 'physiological trust' or 'relational equality' - even if they have difference of opinions with other experts.  Zan, Brent, Miz, Eben and I are friends. 

We all have our differences from each other but we have full respect for each other.  With powerful people it's like that.  That's also why I don't judge women too much as I used to in person when I'm developing relationships; I've been with women from MANY backgrounds and social groups, etc.

Nature and Energy are power.  We can harness energy to create power and you can do this with the neural network of your brain to build new emotional associations to attract the sexuality of women.

We never really had a way to work on it before other than major life experiences like becoming a monk, going to war (and some of those guys STILL aren't confident with women), or 'acting' confident' by modeling alpha male behavior 'enough' until you become congruent with the acting. 

S.A.M. is how you can work on building your energy and confidence starting with your beliefs and reframing your relationships from your State level which will then affect your actions and behavior. 

Ok, so how do you achieve this kind of masculine power and the physiological ability to have beautiful women melting and opening up to you to start an intimate relationship (or more)? 

How do you consistently GET natural attraction response from women that compels them to be with you beyond their logic or social status?

I think you know...

Introducing

'Sexual Attraction Mastery!'

4 DVD program

Sexual Attraction Mastery is how you can get DIRECTLY on that path to sparking attraction within the women however you meet and with attraction, things WILL HAPPEN. 

Not only that, you will be ATTRACTING more women TO you and you will be seeing more IOI's and approvals for you to approach her anyways (without having to just make a 'colder' connection).  It's based on the Law of Attraction and behavioral science.

S.A.M. works effectively on your natural game and your energy vs. the focus on your social and inner game (which is so predominant in the industry). 

Fortunately, handling the relational dynamics and nature/energy will actually resolve and free your suppressed inner game itself the more you apply the tools - that has been my experience and this 'reality' is priceless because you operate literally in another dimension.

How?  Because your 'inner view' and personal beliefs on the world were causally developed from NURTURE.  We have to use the power of NATURE to break down the walls that your causal nurture has conditioned you into over the years. 

This way you'll free yourself from torment and self-consciousness while being able to harness your masculine, raw power because you will see your place in the world. 

You will also discover the beauty of women and you will be able to celebrate this while still retaining the balance of power.  Women will love you for it.

If you're trying to impress, are flabbergasted, don't know what to say, stuck in your own head, S.A.M. will help you to fix your power relationship to woman at your core belief level. 

S.A.M. will teach you where these beliefs came from with CLARITY (visuals) and rework them with real-world clear examples to completely redefine your view of reality into one of nature and power which will affect all of your communication with women. 

No more fear or anxiety when you apply the teachings here; you will find they all start melting away.  Women will start giving you the responses you want and you won't have to trick or try to manipulate them at all.  You will stop being 'stuck in your logical mind' and using more of your birthright power in a world where there are millions of single women.

The training is based on unrivaled social and natural awareness, communication, psychology and behavioral science.  We use power tools like the truth of 'Causality' and 'Relational Influence' to see where you beliefs and behavior came from so we can be aware, get some controlled leverage and choose new causes for reconditioning your energy.

We will then have clear-cut actions to take and tools to build and reinforce your new reality as you watch the world and women change around you as if by magic.

It's finally time the industry started looking beyond the limitations of inner (logical) and social game (that's up to them and they may not be ready for it yet)..maybe it's time for YOU to look to the power of nature (which is being suppressed in you right now) and harnessing your energy potential to attract female sexuality.

We may have never had that kind of natural training until A.R.D./N.G.S./S.A.M. because attraction is based on ENERGY and the Western social world itself is pretty much clueless as far as energy or natural value is concerned.  It's not about me, it's about the message and I admit that I used to be more ignorant to this until I went Far East and have been harnessing certain things for 6 years; much of what I bring to you in the program so you can choose to use them as well.

As you can see there are a lot of great benefits you'll get by effectively and constructively working on the 94% of what matters the most.

And with a 100% 90 day money back guarantee if you're not satisfied, why not just see the value for yourself?  I'm leaving a lot of what I could be talking about as detail points just within the program itself (so you can just dive in and be amazed!)

I want to be clear, this is not about 'pick-up lines' (actually I gave you the only ones you'll ever have to use above).  Again,

'Sexual Attraction Mastery' is how to practically develop and recondition yourself into more powerful, natural character to connect with women automatically on their sexual levels. 

This is practical, real-world work on your awareness, State, beliefs, behavior and results in the 94% of communication; the nonverbal.  You will see your body language change and how differently people respond to you.  Guys email me every week saying this just from applying A.R.D. or some of the stuff in the emails.

S.A.M. is how to become this man who achieves these results and experiences all the benefits you can imagine.  S.A.M. is about your natural game and your energy value to women.  This is the real deal and the industry is JUST starting to wake up to an awareness of nature and sexual energy.  You can get a head start RIGHT NOW.

Within the program is easily the power to resolve all of your inner game issues and sticking points by working on powers greater than your inner game; your causal beliefs, behavioral relationships, physiology, energy and natural character to unleash the true masculine power suppressed within you.

You are a sexual force of masculinity in the waiting.  You have attracted this to you I think because you know that there are more answers and more power that you're supposed to have which you've had all along.

This is the tool to bring it out...to add POWER to your self-definition.

The price for 'Sexual Attraction Mastery' is $139.

And at this low of a price (for what you may easily find to be the most potent information available), it's a no-brainer investment if you're serious about getting more tangible results with women. 

Compare it to the price of bootcamps; $2000?  Or my personal 'Natural Game Go' coaching which now starts at $4000.

Of course it's much less because I can leverage my time in a DVD product but you can watch it over and over again.  This is the meat & potatoes (& dessert) of HOW to practically improve your confidence and sexual power to see results with women.

One of the things about what I teach is that it's so profound that you will keep getting more out of the discs as you keep going back to it.  This cutting edge level of information just isn't available anywhere else and I've taken 10,000's hours of direct Eastern influence and represented them in this program as well.

You will rarely find a natural who can REALLY explain what's going on like I can and have the consistent results and attraction with women to prove. 

It's a small investment for the payoff and it represents the discovering years of my journeys right up to today as well as learning from the other best guru's (Dave D., Zan and Brent).

I even give you the exact same resources I've used to build much of my powerful energy.  These resources that you'll have access to are worth their weight in gold and will help you do most of the magic. 

In fact, I've finally decided for the first time to release many of them in a special format as part of your bonus package that will have you accessing them (in which some are near impossible to get otherwise - and you would never think of in a 100 years yourself.)

You won't believe how easy it is yet it makes PERFECT sense.  NO other dating expert or mPUA has even mentioned this, yet it's done behavioral MIRACLES for me and may be your only hope for power, truth and sexual magnetism (and we cover this KEY #1 factor in the program very well - and you'll see what I mean when you 'get it'). 

And you can start 1 minute after your order to access the power tools that are even more important than the rest of the program itself.

I don't have to try and hype oversell this because S.A.M. is the solution it says it is: Sexual Attraction MASTERY.  I came from being a great catch with dry spells, frustration and inconsistent success into who I am today; a solid natural in real life. 

It won't have to take you nearly as long as did for me because I'm bringing the exact clarification points, tools and resources which it took me years to clarify, so you can start using them tonight.

I'm not going to add tons of 'action' oriented benefit driven surface fixes or the 'one magic word' (which is 'hi' by the way) that will make her melt, etc.

This is about the power of alpha nature and sexual energy and how to practically harness it to see REAL WORLD attraction and results with women.  This isn't 'act' like a natural alpha or stand up straight and model their behavior.

This is the bulk 94% that you haven't taken advantage of yet because it's where most of your power lies.  I just found a different way partly because of my massive experience with international women.

Do you accept that you may have to work on your 94% of nature and sexual power/energy more than maybe your 'outer' skills to balance things out and see more results?  I just want you to be aware of that and to differentiate it from 'social' or 'inner' game - just so you can see what areas you'll be working on. 

There's great value in other products out there of course..just consider investing in the natural as I take you straight to the heart of it visually.

Well, here is the perfect and DIFFERENT training and really a SMALL investment when you consider the power of nature that you'll now be able to harness that you've held repressed that actually HEALS your inner blocks and sticking points to free your mind. 

Sexual communication is a natural process that is greater than your own (or her) development or socio-cultural adaptation. 

Think of yourself as greater than just your logic; you are an energy, sexual being.  Add this power to your inner game (and social value too) - and the world's your oyster.

S.A.M. is based off of the advanced, relevant behavioral science and reconditioning tools of my Alpha Relational Dynamics program.  S.A.M. focuses more on the essential basic awareness, beliefs and reconditioning for you to start seeing results with attracting women, attraction, flirting and developing (physical) relationships.  We focus more on the seduction process.

I've made my teachings easier to understand without watering them down and more relevant to most men (that has been part of my dilemma or sticking point in the past).  It's advanced because it's very profound and will probably shake your world around quite a bit with it's cutting clarity.  Good, it's time for change isn't it?

It's not what you're used to and that is a step you're going to have to take because I'm taking you into a profound awareness of different realities here.  You're in the right place at the right time.

There is a LOT of content inside that you'll only discover once you get the program so let's get started and see for yourself.

So try RELM out and keep the first one for free.  You can keep the other bonuses and the DVD even if you decide to return the program for a full refund.  You can easily unsubscribe from RELM several different ways and not be charged after that point. 

It will be a 3 week trial; after 3 weeks you will be charged $37 (including s&h) at the same time each month until you unsubscribe from receiving the monthly DVD coaching.

Each month I'm on the cutting edge of power, behaviorism, relationships and psychology so you have more awareness and effect in your life to attract and get more of what you want.  I may release the full RELM collection itself sometime including back issues.

Now, back to the picture of sexual attraction and results with women..

Remember that whenever you meet a new woman if she doesn't 'feel' anything or get some kind of response (like a gut-level reaction), it's going to be very difficult to communicate with her in a way that would lead anywhere (physically at least).

This is a great opportunity for you to now become that man because when you do, a whole new WORLD of women and relationships opens up to you that just couldn't from following the PUA seduction path or not being able to communicate value on the sexual level. 

This is more than 'referencing' alpha male actions or 'natural game' - this is the core State building behavioral building blocks to BECOME that man and I have clearly done it.  I have more women than I know what to do with.

BECOME THE POLAR EQUAL to suppressed female sexuality and you will be a modern day Casanova as you will be one of the FEW who has the power to bring it out of her on those non-verbal, sexual levels.  It's a whole different game; watch the world change around you as you change.  S.A.M. & RELM will help you build that powerful polarity as well.

Official Order Link Is Below.

WAIT: Important Points Before You Jump Ahead

What the S.A.M. program is NOT:  This program is not a LOT of things and I want you to be clear on this before you decide to make an investment decision, really. 

I don't want refunders because they were expecting more 'things to say' or 'pick-up lines' who aren't ready to take a small leap of faith into the different world of awareness, nature and energy while still clinging to old conditioned beliefs.

The 'End of Game' is just that for a reason.  We have to let go of it because it's so different from the power of nature and energy.

This is about becoming a real, balanced man of power and attractiveness who can start and develop new relationships for short or long term more on smooth instinct INSTEAD OF the focus on thinking 3 steps ahead of yourself in a routine game. 

It's not filled with the most 'examples' of ie. what to say or do on Date #2 (I'll answer any dating question or logistical detail during any stage of dating in person), but you're going to have to trust that you will find the answers and things to say.  She will be helping you out when you have enough natural value.

I want to empower you because you already have the ability to do ALL of this on your own when you do become the true equal of women, you can forget about 'game' and 'lines'.  Remember again, I also told you how to connect above.  This power can be yours and it's time to claim back your birthright.

The actions we have for re-conditioning are actually not that difficult and you may overlook them but that is where the profound and limitless power comes from.  Don't take it for granted.  I do them REGULARLY myself.

Realistically you're studying from several other guru's and that's great.  When you dive into S.A.M. and accept it for what it is, you'll find that a lot of your other questions will fall into place..things that weren't answered before or now make sense because you see them for what they are, where they came from or from a different angle. 

You will become more aware and more non self -conscious around women and you will find that not only will you automatically know the right things to do and say but women will be opening up and responding to you to develop relationships however you connect.

So if you ARE ready for that quantum leap into adding powerful sexual charisma and non-verbal mastery to your new, expanding definition of 'self' then you're ready.  But;

&Vista - All Regions

"I Ordered 1 of the original 100 SAM's.  I really think that is course is great...SAM

takes more of a focused laser beam approach. 
 
The bottom line is that SAM filled in the holes (even holes that RELM hasn't

even really touched yet).  Thanks for such a focused program and keep on doing

what your doing for us all."

Sean M.
Huntsville, AL

The power of nature and the biological force of sexual attraction is so compelling to women, that the stronger you are in it, the more they literally have no choice but to be drawn to you like a magnet. 

p.s. don't you owe it to yourself to spark an irresistible natural response within women so that they can't help but start flirting or wanting to get to know you (without having to worry about 'game' or what to do next)? BREAKTHROUGH TODAY and add sexual power to your reality and have beautiful women involved in your life.

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